haha forget everything i say! its all lies...
i was against getting MW2 because i knew it would be faulty, full of annoyances, and have poor support from Infinity Ward. i was completely correct, but i still got the game, and despite all the grievances, i still enjoy(ed) it.
i was against getting Black Ops only because my 2nd child was born (in august) and i didnt think id have time (or "guilt-free permission" from wife) to play it. if i could only play it once/twice a week, i would feel so antsy, annoyed, and frustrated that i couldnt play more, meanwhile i would be poor at the game (with so little playing time). BUT i have been playing nearly everyday (red dead redemption, and now back to MW2) for at least 2 hours, so that is good enough for me. i have already ordered Black Ops, so im gonna play till my hearts content!
i really hope to party up with a bunch of our clan mates, because that just makes it so much more fun. lately we have been having parties of 4,5,6 ppl, and it has been so much more rewarding and enjoyable. hopefully this will continue (im sure it will).